Positive Coping Skills vs Negative Coping Skills

Oliver shouted in Timothy’s face when he missed a goal during their soccer game. Timothy did some deep breathing to calm himself down.

Well done, Timothy! Whether he knows it or not, Timothy has just applied a positive coping skill (deep breathing) to a challenging situation. Positive coping skills can include actions such as:

• Talking to someone about the problem
• Thinking things through logically before acting
• Visualizing a calm, happy place

Kellie was playing a board game with Marisa. When Marisa won, Kellie stood up and stormed out of the room.

Not a great choice, Marisa! Marisa’s behavior in this challenging situation is an example of a negative coping skill. Negative coping skills can include actions such as:

• Physical violence
• Verbal abuse
• Passive-aggressive behavior, e.g. avoidance   

When faced with the everyday challenges of life, it is vital that our students can identify and apply positive, healthy coping skills rather than negative, unhealthy ones.

Positive and Negative Coping Skills Applied to Real-life Scenarios

This sorting activity has been created by a dedicated team of educators to help you explore positive and negative coping skills with your students in your social-emotional learning lessons. Students are required to:

• Read the scenario on the card
• Identify whether a positive or negative sorting skill has been used
• Place the card under the correct heading

Multiple Applications of This Positive and Negative Coping Skills Sorting Activity

Use this sorting activity to enhance learning through whole-class lessons, group activities, or independent reflection.

Whole-class Discussion

Display the sorting cards on your interactive whiteboard. Use guiding questions to promote exploration of each scenario, such as:

• Has anyone ever been in this situation before?
• What did you do?
• Was this a positive or negative response to the problem?

You might like to use a prop that can be passed around to indicate whose turn it is to contribute to the discussion.

Group Drama Activity

Divide the class into groups and provide each group with a sorting card. Have the students develop, rehearse, and present a group role play that demonstrates positive coping skills in action.

Individual Reflection

Encourage students to write about a time when they applied a negative coping skill to a situation, then have them suggest a positive coping skill they could have used instead.

Easily Prepare This Resource for Your Students

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Looking to further explore this topic with your students? We’ve got plenty more resources to support you in your lesson planning:

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